Helping Someone Get Support

How You Can Help
You do not need to investigate, fix the situation, or have all the answers. The most important things you can do are:
• Listen without judgment
• Believe them
• Validate their experience
• Support their choices
Avoid pressing for details or asking intrusive questions.

Respect Their Choices
Sexual assault often takes away a person's sense of control. One of the best ways to support a survivor is by respecting their autonomy.
A survivor may choose to:
• Report to law enforcement or Title IX
• Delay reporting
• Not reporting at all
Trust them to decide what is best for them

Know Their Options
There is no deadline to report to BYU, and survivors can explore their options whenever they feel ready.
You can help by:
• Learning about available resources
• Offering to connect the survivor with an advocate, counselor, or medical care
• Supporting them if they choose to report
Support is available whenever they are ready to seek it.

Note: If your loved one is under 18 and has experienced abuse or assault, reporting is required by Utah law. You can contact SASS for assistance with this.